For those who want to be ACC – Attractive, Confident, Competent
Picture this:
Plain looking women with flat hair, baggy clothes and drooping shoulders shuffles by. Then we get one of those Hollywood moments when she stands tall, shakes her hair out and reveals luscious shiny locks. She sheds the oversize cardigan permitting vivid shapeliness to shine forth, a beauty revealed.
An old cliché or attainable performance?
Many women disguise wonderful assets for a multitude of reasons. Some may not recognise their own beauty and believe no one would want to see them. They may be aware of special talents and prefer not to display them for fear of upsetting others.
Many excuses are available when challenged about this state of affairs,
such as
• I wore red once and it didn’t work
• If I wear a skirt I will need to wear heals (no can do)
• People will think I am trying to hard to impress
• Martha said I will never be a beauty
• I am the funny one, no one expects me to ……..
Whatever the belief that holds you in chrysalis formation you can break free. When you accept a label, designed by other people’s opinions, you will stunt your growth in all areas. If you are unable to accept the real you then others will never meet her or be given the chance to accept her. This is not a chicken or the egg scenario.
Get to know the inner you and shed the emotional baggage that holds you back.
Potentially fabulous programme at www.lifecoachsouthwest.co.uk
Sunday, 31 July 2011
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